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Another point of view of the phenomenon of ‘hooking up’.

There are now more high school seniors saying that they never date than seniors who say that they date frequently. Apparently, it’s all about the hookup.

Avoid alienating love prospects – don’t let a dark mood spoil an interesting prospect.

Improve your people skills, especially listening but also making interesting small talk.

Favor meeting men while they are involved in worthwhile activities or through a network of friends.

Dab an alluring scent on sparingly: a hint behind your ears, on the pulse points of your neck, wrists and behind your knee. Pheromones are also an interesting tactic.

Develop a real interest in your prospect’s passions. Your eyes sparkling with interest will transfix him. Do some research, find a way to make his passions exciting and interesting to you. Truly share his enthusiasm.

How to Interest a Man with Body Language

If you plan to go to a cafe that your prospect frequents, leave your books, computer and book bags at home. You don’t want to place anything in his path, or send out the signal, “I’m busy”.

Keep your arms away from your chest. Crossed arms mean leave me alone.

Look him in the eye when he enters a room. Keep making eye contact. Then smile. Nod to let him know you noticed him. Nodding is a gesture mostly used by men so it will catch them off guard and make them notice you.

Learn how to tell if a man likes you, yes, but use your instincts to decide if you should pursue it.

When you meet a man who interests you, help him feel comfortable asking for a date.

How to Quickly Tell If You Interest a Man

• Does he look into your eyes?
• Is he interested in what you have to say?
• Does he rearrange his schedule to see you?
• Does he enjoy seeing romantic comedies with you?
• Does he share your interest in clothes?
• Does he get along with your friends, but not too well?
• Has he introduced you to his friends?
• Does he make you feel you are the only woman in the room?
• Does touch you often innocently: hand on your arm or the small of your back?
• Can you talk for hours?
• Has he casually brought up a current movie?
• Does he seem a little excited, giddy?